Have at least one hour bible study per week with your spouse
Always pray with your spouse no matter how
Husbands submit to your wives as you submit to Christ
Wives submit to your husband as you submit to Christ
At the time of conflict always find the common ground and build on that
Acknolwedge Holy Ghost as the leader and rule maker of your house
Don’t blame your spouse for criticizing you because that could be your weakness. No one is perfect. Accept criticism.
Humble yourself before your God and spouse
Take time to enjoy life together.
Worship and Serve God together
Take charge of your finances together
Grow together as a family
Appreciate your spouse in front of others (specially your side of family, like your mom and dad).
Trust your spouse even if things don't make sense sometimes. Trust is the key to relationship
Know what makes your spouse very angry and stay away from it
Make your family first before anything except your faith in Christ
Know how to please your spouse. It could be as simple as bringing flower or buy a small gift
Take responsibility to help your soul mate in everything s/he needs help.
Spend as much as time with your spouse
Separate time with your spouse from time with your children
Make love as often as possible. Make it a habit unless you want present yourself before God in prayer together.
Fast together so that the devil cannot attack by divide and conquer
Lead by example not by force
Accept one another even if things look silly
Accept criticism and strong feedback
Be honest. Share what you feel honestly with your spouse. Don’t take grudge.
Don’t forget to say I love you before you leave your spouse
Pray for your spouse even if s/he doesn't know that
Don’t share your marriage secretes to no one
Holy Spirit is your true counselor. Don’t trust human beings with your marriage.
Know that your marriage is the most important thing next to your faith in Christ
Protect your marriage with all you have got when it is in danger
Don’t involve your parents with your conflicts. Your conflicts will go away soon but they won’t.
Be always hopeful about the future.
Create a sense of security; specially husbands
Be positive. Don’t interpret the words of your spouse in the wrong way. Always ask for more clarification.
Love gently. Life is short. Huge gently. Talk gently. Show your love and don’t hide it.
Honor others more than yourself to serve them with humility
Never hesitate to ask forgiveness
Become the source of laughter and joy
Don’t be too jealous with your spouse. Jealousy opens the door to marital infidelity. True love is not jealous and doesn't envy.
Always ask for help if you need help. Sometimes husbands need to be told what to do specifically for their wives.
Be Thoughtful and Passionate
Be Merciful and Loving
Be Caring and Protecting
Be Peaceful and Joyful
Be Compassionate and Decent
Be Graceful and Praiseful
Be Truthful and Honest
Be Patient and Thankful
Be Servant and Helpful
Be Gentle and Full of empathy
Be Disciplined and Respectful
Be Sincere and Full of integrity
Be Generous and Cheerful
Be Content with your spouse.
Be Knowledgeable and Wise
Always intercede for the sins of your spouse to God
Be Obedient and self-sacrificing
Never count or recall one’s wrong doings
Be Hopeful for the future
Love like crazy
Forgive like everything a person does harm to you is like a scratch.
Humble yourself like you are the dumbest and lowest of all, but you know that you are not that at all.
Share out of Love; not because you want something in return
Be Holy. Purity from immorality
Don’t grumble and complain on your spouse
Watch what you do with your time. Actions speak more than words.
Watch out the words that come of your mouth. Words can heal or break your relationship.
Don't make empty promises. Be a man/woman of your words
Prophesize good things on your marriage
Never mention the word divorce in any of your arguments
Fulfil your family needs
Come up with a common working plan to discipline and raise your children
Always resolve conflicts before it is too late. The sooner the better.
Take a short walk when you are too angry to speak.
Never argue with your spouse in a difficult situation. Find the right time and place to do it.
Don’t fight in front of your children. But also let them know that healthy arguments are also part of life.
Deal with your personal, spiritual and professional issues without hurting your relationship
Don’t keep secrets that can potentially hurt your relationship.
Allow time to solve some of your critical marital issues.
Remember that we are constantly changing every day. Tomorrow is another day.
Know that you are the protector of your family next to Christ. God has trusted you with a precious gift.
Be Faithful and Loyal
Be Gentle and Kind
Keep your promises and never make empty ones
Keep the secret of your marriage and your spouse. Very important.
Be faithful to God and to your marriage
Fear God. Before doing anything ask your self the question of fearing and obeying him no matter how smart you think you are
Please God. Always find a way and a reason to please him.
Tell your spouse that s/he has an important role in your life every time
Treating your spouse with respect in front of friends and family
Establish and pursue your marital visions and dreams. This can be both physical and spiritual goal you want to achieve as a family
May God bless you and protect your marriage from any form attack from the evil and bless it till he comes back! Amen!
If you are willing to give your life to Christ who is faithful to lead you through
the rest of your life, we encourage you to pray this prayer and get back to us for
more spiritual encouragement.
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"Lord Jesus I confess all my sins to you. Please forgive all my sins. I also know
that I have to forgive those who hurt me and I forgive them. I believe you have
paid your life to save me. I believe you died and rose and you will come again to
take me to my eternal home with my father and God. I want you to be the Lord of
my life. Please take control of me and lead me through every moment of my life.
I now accept you as my Lord and savior. I want to know you and serve you all the days of my life.
I believe that you have defeated the devil and took his power over me by shedding
your blood on the cross. I also believe that you have the power to give me the privilege
to be called the child of God. I deny the power of darkness. I rebook every power
of darkness that used to work in my life. I now announce that I belong to my Lord
Jesus Christ. I pray that my days on earth end calling your name and trusting you with all
my heart. I give you honor and glory for taking me as you child. Holy Spirit come
in to my soul and give me peace, joy and happiness in Jesus name. Amen"
If you have just prayed this prayer, you shall declare it in the name of Jesus and
have faith on the Lord who is faithful to be your father and the keeper of your
soul. We also love to involve in your journey with Christ and help you with anything
you need towards the fulfillment of your spiritual achievement with Christ. We pray
that may God give you grace to withstand any temptation of sin and make you faithful
to do his will in your life. You may contact us anytime you want to talk to us by
sending private email or posting a prayer in our prayer box. May the Lord keep you
safe and protect your faith until we all meet him in glory and everlasting peace
in Jesus name. Amen.