By   Tewodros   Date Posted: Mar. 12, 2020  Hits: 44   Category:  Relationship to God   Total Comment: 0             A+ A-


Have at least one hour bible study per week with your spouse

Always pray with your spouse no matter how

Husbands submit to your wives as you submit to Christ

Wives submit to your husband as you submit to Christ

At the time of conflict always find the common ground and build on that

Acknolwedge Holy Ghost as the leader and rule maker of your house

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Humble yourself before your God and spouse

Take time to enjoy life together.

Worship and Serve God together

Take charge of your finances together

Grow together as a family

Appreciate your spouse in front of others (specially your side of family, like your mom and dad).

Trust your spouse even if things don't make sense sometimes. Trust is the key to relationship

Know what makes your spouse very angry and stay away from it

Make your family first before anything except your faith in Christ

Know how to please your spouse. It could be as simple as bringing flower or buy a small gift

Take responsibility to help your soul mate in everything s/he needs help.

Spend as much as time with your spouse

Separate time with your spouse from time with your children

Make love as often as possible. Make it a habit unless you want present yourself before God in prayer together.

Fast together so that the devil cannot attack by divide and conquer

Lead by example not by force

Accept one another even if things look silly

Accept criticism and strong feedback

Be honest. Share what you feel honestly with your spouse. Don’t take grudge.

Don’t forget to say I love you before you leave your spouse

Pray for your spouse even if s/he doesn't know that

Don’t share your marriage secretes to no one

Holy Spirit is your true counselor. Don’t trust human beings with your marriage.

Know that your marriage is the most important thing next to your faith in Christ

Protect your marriage with all you have got when it is in danger

Don’t involve your parents with your conflicts. Your conflicts will go away soon but they won’t.

Be always hopeful about the future.

Create a sense of security; specially husbands

Be positive. Don’t interpret the words of your spouse in the wrong way. Always ask for more clarification.

Love gently. Life is short. Huge gently. Talk gently. Show your love and don’t hide it.

Honor others more than yourself to serve them with humility

Never hesitate to ask forgiveness

Become the source of laughter and joy 

Be helpful

Be inspirational.

Always thankful

Always forgiving

Always cherish

Don’t be too jealous with your spouse. Jealousy opens the door to marital infidelity. True love is not jealous and doesn't envy.

Always ask for help if you need help. Sometimes husbands need to be told what to do specifically for their wives.

Be Thoughtful and Passionate

Be Merciful and Loving

Be Caring and Protecting

Be Peaceful and Joyful

Be Compassionate and Decent

Be Graceful and Praiseful

Be Truthful and Honest

Be Patient and Thankful

Be Servant and Helpful

Be Gentle and Full of empathy

Be Disciplined and Respectful

Be Sincere and Full of integrity

Be Generous and Cheerful

Be Content with your spouse.

Be Knowledgeable and Wise

Always intercede for the sins of your spouse to God

Be Thankful

Be Obedient and self-sacrificing

Never count or recall one’s wrong doings

Be Hopeful for the future

Love like crazy

Forgive like everything a person does harm to you is like a scratch.

Humble yourself like you are the dumbest and lowest of all, but you know that you are not that at all.

Share ou

of Love; not because you want something in return

Be Holy. Purity from immorality

Don’t grumble and complain on your spouse

Watch what you do with your time. Actions speak more than words.

Watch out the words that come of your mouth. Words can heal or break your relationship.

Don't make empty promises. Be a man/woman of your words

Prophesize good things on your marriage

Never mention the word divorce in any of your arguments

Fulfil your family needs

Come up with a common working plan to discipline and raise your children

Always resolve conflicts before it is too late. The sooner the better.

Take a short walk when you are too angry to speak.

Never argue with your spouse in a difficult situation. Find the right time and place to do it.

Don’t fight in front of your children. But also let them know that healthy arguments are also part of life.

Deal with your personal, spiritual and professional issues without hurting your relationship

Don’t keep secrets that can potentially hurt your relationship.

Allow time to solve some of your critical marital issues.

Remember that we are constantly changing every day. Tomorrow is another day.

Know that you are the protector of your family next to Christ. God has trusted you with a precious gift.

Be Faithful and Loyal

Be Gentle and Kind

Keep your promises and never make empty ones

Keep the secret of your marriage and your spouse. Very important.

Be faithful to God and to your marriage

Fear God. Before doing anything ask your self the question of fearing and obeying him no matter how smart you think you are

Please God. Always find a way and a reason to please him.

Tell your spouse that s/he has an important role in your life every time

Treating your spouse with respect in front of friends and family

Establish and pursue your marital visions and dreams. This can be both physical and spiritual goal you want to achieve as a family

May God bless you and protect your marriage from any form attack from the evil and bless it till he comes back! Amen!!!


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