This is continuation from what we have stoped about how we should resolve marital conflicts.
5. Humility
There is nothing like humility that has the power to destroy every potential fire in a relationship
Humbleness is indeed a great tool to begin and end a conversation with our spouse in peace.
On the other side, if we allow ourselves to be filled with pride, we could definitely lead our marriage in to battle grounds with an outcome of defeat for us and the family in general.
Humility doesn’t mean low self-esteem. God always stands with the humble and greatly rebuke the proud. And if God is not with the proud, then the proud always loses to the humble. God loves the humble and he hates the arrogant. He gives grace for the humble and prepare a way out from all of his troubles.
6. Do not involve any one in your conflicts
Whenever you have a conflict that can easily manageable between you and your spouse, do it in private so that no one involves in the conflict. Most of the time small conflict can escalate to big problem when three or more people are involved in a marital conflict that could have been easily solved with just the husband and wife.
Marital conflicts are marital secrets that should be kept until it is too much to be handled by just the two. Holy Spirit will make you bear things that are beyond your capacity to carry.
If it is beyond that, the issue has to be brought to the attention of well spiritually matured leaders and elders in the church.
They will presumably keep your secrets with them and offer their own prayer and support.
A great manifestation and power of the Holy Ghost shall be released when we pray together as a church to eradicate a great problem in our midst.