100 Divorce Prevention TipsEdit Blog

By   Tewodros   Date Posted: Mar. 14, 2017  Hits: 2,556   Category:  Relationship to God   Total Comment: 0             A+ A-


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  • Have at least one hour bible study per week with your spouse
  • Always pray with your spouse no matter how
  • Husbands submit to your wives as you submit to Christ
  • Wives submit to your husband as you submit to Christ
  • At the time of conflict always find the common ground and build on that
  • Acknowledge Holy Ghost as the leader and rule maker of your house
  • Don’t blame your spouse for criticizing you because that could be your weakness. No one is perfect. Accept criticism.
  • Humble yourself before your God and spouse
  • Take time to enjoy life together.
  • Worship and Serve God together
  • Take charge of your finances together
  • Grow together as a family
  • Appreciate your spouse in front of others (specially your side of family, like your mom and dad).
  • Trust your spouse even if things don't make sense sometimes. Trust is the key to relationship
  • Know what makes your spouse very angry and stay away from it
  • Make your family first before anything except your faith in Christ
  • Know how to please your spouse. It could be as simple as bringing flower or buy a small gift
  • Take responsibility to help your soul mate in everything s/he needs help.
  • Spend as much as time with your spouse
  • Separate time with your spouse from time with your children
  • Make love as often as possible. Make it a habit unless you want present yourself before God in prayer together.
  • Fast together so that the devil cannot attack by divide and conquer
  • Lead by example not by force
  • Accept one another even if things look silly
  • Accept criticism and strong feedback
  • Be honest. Share what you feel honestly with your spouse. Don’t take grudge.
  • Don’t forget to say I love you before you leave your spouse
  • Pray for your spouse even if s/he doesn't know that
  • Don’t share your marriage secretes to no one
  • Holy Spirit is your true counselor. Don’t trust human beings with your marriage.
  • Know that your marriage is the most important thing next to your faith in Christ
  • Protect your marriage with all you have got when it is in danger
  • Don’t involve your parents with your conflicts. Your conflicts will go away soon but they won’t.
  • Be always hopeful about the future.
  • Create a sense of security; specially husbands
  • Be positive. Don’t interpret the words of your spouse in the wrong way. Always ask for more clarification.
  • Love gently. Life is short. Huge gently. Talk gently. Show your love and don’t hide it.
  • Honor others more than yourself to serve them with humility
  • Never hesitate to ask forgiveness
  • Become the source of laughter and joy
  • Be helpful
  • Be inspirational.
  • Always thankful
  • Always forgiving
  • Always cherish
  • Don’t be too jealous with your spouse. Jealousy opens the door to marital infidelity. True love is not jealous and doesn't envy.
  • Always ask for help if you need help. Sometimes husbands need to be told what to do specifically for their wives.
  • Be Thoughtful and Passionate
  • Be Merciful and Loving
  • Be Caring and Protecting
  • Be Peaceful and Joyful
  • Be Compassionate and Decent
  • Be Graceful and Praiseful
  • Be Truthful and Honest
  • Be Patient and Thankful
  • Be Servant and Helpful
  • Be Gentle and Full of empathy
  • Be Disciplined and Respectful
  • Be Sincere and Full of integrity
  • Be Generous and Cheerful
  • Be Content with your spouse.
  • Be Knowledgeable and Wise
  • Always intercede for the sins of your spouse to God
  • Be Thankful
  • Be Obedient and self-sacrificing
  • Never count or recall one’s wrong doings
  • Be Hopeful for the future
  • Love like crazy
  • Forgive like everything a person does harm to you is like a scratch.
  • Don't think of your self better than your spouse but vise versa
  • Share out of Love; not because you want something in return
  • Be Holy. Purity from immorality
  • Don’t grumble and complain on your spouse
  • Watch what you do with your time. Actions speak more than words.
  • Watch out the words that come of your mouth. Words can heal or break your relationship.
  • Don't make empty promises. Be a man/woman of your words
  • Prophesize good things on your marriage
  • Never mention the word divorce in any of your arguments
  • Fulfil your family needs
  • Come up with a common working plan to discipline and raise your children
  • Always resolve conflicts before it is too late. The sooner the better.
  • Take a short walk when you are too angry to speak.
  • Never argue with your spouse in a difficult situation. Find the right time and place to do it.
  • Don’t fight in front of your children. But also let them know that healthy arguments are also part of life.
  • Deal with your personal, spiritual and professional issues without hurting your relationship
  • Don’t keep secrets that can potentially hurt your relationship.
  • Allow time to solve some of your critical marital issues.
  • Remember that we are constantly changing every day. Tomorrow is another day.
  • Know that you are the protector of your family next to Christ. God has trusted you with a precious gift.
  • Be Faithful and Loyal
  • Be Gentle and Kind
  • Keep your promises and never make empty ones
  • Keep the secret of your marriage and your spouse. Very important.
  • Be faithful to God and to your marriage
  • Fear God. Before doing anything ask your self the question of fearing and obeying him no matter how smart you think you are
  • Please God. Always find a way and a reason to please him.
  • Tell your spouse that s/he has an important role in your life every time
  • Treating your spouse with respect in front of friends and family
  • Establish and pursue your marital visions and dreams. This can be both physical and spiritual goal you want to achieve as a family
  • May God bless you and protect your marriage from any form attack from the evil and bless it till he comes back! Amen!

     





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